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[proofofconcept]

I didn't come here to be roasted

Well, did you like it?

[trigeminalheadache]

I’m not roasting. I’m teasing.

It was nice. I’m not sure how confident I could be doing it outside of a book.

[proofofconcept]

Well, if you want to try it more I'm open to that kind of thing. Obviously

Also obviously fine if you're not that interested

There's simple stuff for if you're not confident

[trigeminalheadache]

No, I think I'm interested. I like being submissive. It feels natural and I enjoy it. But I want to explore this more.

[proofofconcept]

I definitely have some ideas we can explore

And like for what it's worth I'm not, like, totally exclusive about subbing? Like definitely sometimes I'm in that mood if you maybe want me to look you up or whatever

[trigeminalheadache]

Look me up when you want to sub, or not sub?

I'd like to hear your ideas to explore.

[proofofconcept]

I mean, I meant when I want to not sub but both

So idk how much nonsexual stuff you've done but I think an obedience test thing might be fun, like I have to talk without moving my hands, maybe you have like a crop or something to tap me with if I fuck up

[trigeminalheadache]

Both, please, yeah. Though I guess if you're helping me explore, when you want to sub is already built into it.

Dominating in a nonsexual way? That would be zero. But this sounds interesting. I don't have a crop, but I could probably get one.

[proofofconcept]

I have to assume they basically give stuff like that out like candy

The crop was just an idea, there's options. Other impact toys or just like a demerit system that add up to something at the end

[trigeminalheadache]

You're not entirely wrong. But if they ever gave me one, it's lost by now. Most of the doms I've been with either didn't do anything harder than a hand or hairbrush for impact play or had their own implements. And even then, I haven't really experienced more than a hand or a hairbrush.

I like the idea of the crop, but only if you're okay with it.

[proofofconcept]

I mean, if it turns out you're bad with the crop or something I can call yellow and we'll figure something out. A hit with a hairbrush per demerit or something. You're not gonna seriously hurt me in a few hits

That's the advantage of doing it in sort of a casual/nonsexual way, I have enough like wits about me to stop us if it's not working

Nonsexual might be a misnomer because I'll inevitably get turned on but like you know

[trigeminalheadache]

You'll just have to help me find the sweet spot with it. I'm stronger than I look, but I'm also not trying to hurt you. Not with the training wheels on. And, on top of that, not unless you decide that's something you want and I'm comfortable with.

Not that I'm calling you training wheels. The situation is training wheels. Hell, it's pretty much one of those toys you sit and scoot around on until you're ready for a tricycle. Then a bike with training wheels.

And if it is working? Does that go from casual into something sexual?

[proofofconcept]

"Training wheels" would not be the worst thing I've been called, trust me. I'm happy to be your training wheels

It can if you're interested. If not I probably just like go away and jerk off

[trigeminalheadache]

It's the sexiest of nicknames, clearly.

Well. I'd hate to do all that, get you turned on, and then not get to see it through.

[proofofconcept]

I mean I think it's pretty sexy to be like the safe space for someone to learn

Somehow I figured you'd be in that camp

[trigeminalheadache]

I mean, you're really sexy already.
But being a safe space and helping me? Extra sexy.

What might have given me away?

[proofofconcept]

You can keep it up with the crop while you you know help me with it or whatever you said. Tbh it's even better during

Actually maybe like just in moderation so I don't come in like thirty seconds

[trigeminalheadache]

But what if I wanted you to?

[proofofconcept]

You WANT me to come in thirty seconds?

[trigeminalheadache]

It's a hypothetical. I think.

[proofofconcept]

I guess I'm just like, MTV sex ed generation, the guy has to wait so the girl can come or whatever

But if you want me to try to get off fast I can? Hypothetically

[Of course, watch him get performance anxiety and this end up being the one time he needs like an hour.]

[trigeminalheadache]

I don't mind if you come before I do.
Just as long as I do. Unless you're not-subbing and that's part of it.

I don't know. Let's start with casual and see how things go.

[proofofconcept]

So that means you're into denial too, huh?

[trigeminalheadache]

I am. I haven't done it much, but when it's happened, it's been good.

I was gifted a set of charmed earrings that are basically constant edging/denial. Until I'm given permission.

[proofofconcept]

Noted.

That's really interesting actually. I wonder if I could get like a bracelet that prevents orgasms from happening? That might be fun