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[proofofconcept]

Quentin Coldwater

Age: 27

Gender: cis male

Orientation: bisexual

Species:	human, magician
Availability	Quentin is romantically unavailable at this point -- he may have "romantic friendship" type of feelings for some people, but Eliot pretty much has his whole heart. Sexually, though, he's still open. In general, He's willing to sleep with nearly anyone who expresses interest in him. He will not pursue anyone who doesn't show any signs of being into him or expresses that they're sexually incompatible with him, but he doesn't really fuss himself trying to say no to anyone. Everyone can have at least one try, and he's pretty comfortable in enjoying no-strings-attached or just-friends sex, even deeper-feeling stuff with people he's got the romantic friendship thing with. He is, however, socially awkward, so he may miss cues, obvious hints, or flirting unless asked outright. Directness is a good thing.
Turn-Ons:	being slightly mean to him; straightforwardness; feeling useful or like he can solve a problem for you
Turn-Offs:	making him feel stupid or moving the goalposts; going past "slightly mean" and being an asshole; pushing boundaries with his relationship (there are so few, it shouldn't be hard not to do this)
Other:	Generally, Quentin prefers to be submissive, but in very rare situations he'll switch (he needs to feel comfortable with his mental health and comfortable with the person he's with in order to switch, which simply doesn't happen that often in Duplicity). Similarly, with men (or women who peg) he prefers to bottom.
OOC:	I'd prefer to wait on starting stuff until we can tag at a consistent pace, and I prefer to get threads at least into the smut before ending them, so if you think you're probably going to want to drop stuff and start fresh soon, let's handwave instead!
Word prefs:	For male genitals my favorite is cock, but dick is good too. Prick and other slightly insulting or diminutive words are good for a dick that's not in use, so to speak. I'm not a fan of more flowery terms (sex, manhood) for male genitals. For female genitals, cunt is good, pussy works, talking around it (inside her, between her legs) is fine. Flowery terms are good if used sparingly. For butts, hole is my favorite but ass, asshole, rear entrance, other entrance, back door, etc are all fine. I don't love more "juvenile" terms like butt or butthole. Talking around it also works, as long as it can't be confused with a vagina. There really isn't a good sexy word for breasts, so breasts and tits are both fine, or bust for the general area.

Yes

(♥ Indicates fave. Hover over bold for more detail.)
✔ Oral♥
✔ Anal Sex
✔ Vaginal Sex
✔ Aphrodisiacs
✔ Body Worship
✔ Breeding♥
✔ Begging
✔ Body Writing
✔ Chastity
✔ Choking/Breathplay
✔ Clothed Sex
✔ Cock/Ball Torture
✔ Cockwarming
✔ Consensual Nonconsent
✔ Dirty Talk♥
✔ Discipline/Reinforcement
✔ Double Penetration
✔ Dubcon
✔ Face Slapping
✔ Feminization (very mild)
✔ Flaccid Play
✔ Hair Pulling♥
✔ Heat/Rut
✔ Leash and Collar
✔ Objectification
✔ Orgasm Denial♥
✔ Pain Play♥
✔ Praise Kink
✔ Rough Sex
✔ Stuckage♥
✔ Sexual Exhaustion
✔ Size Queen
✔ Wax Play

Maybe

◌ 3+ Penetration
◌ Ageplay
◌ Fisting
◌ Food Play
◌ Forced Nudity
◌ Public
◌ Rimming
◌ Sensory Deprivation
◌ Shaving
◌ Somnophilia
◌ Watersports

No

(* Indicates a character-specific No; may be willing to play nonconsensually or with different characters)
✘ Abuse*
✘ Bratting*
✘ Degradation or Humiliation*
✘ Electricity
✘ Enemas
✘ Feederism
✘ Feet
✘ Feminization (more than mild)*
✘ Human Furniture
✘ Prolapse/Gaping
✘ Scat
✘ Stomach Bulging
✘ Unrealistic or Excessive Fluids
✘ Underage Characters*
✘ Weight Gain or Loss

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grocerylist.txt

[proofofconcept]

[Quentin has written an in-character kink list which he keeps as a file on his device and may send to other characters. It deliberately omits some things he needs more trust to admit to, and he didn't think of some things that are on the main list. In some situations, I may decide to link you to this comment instead of c/ping the whole thing into a tag. It opens in whatever horny plain text application Duplicity has available.]


Favorite
Pain stuff (mild to moderate)
-I'm pretty much never not into stuff on the milder end and I'm usually down for moderate
-spanking and hair pulling are always really good, face slapping, we can talk about details but I definitely want you to hurt me
Oral (giving)
-includes throat fucking, being rough, slightly unusual positions, face sitting
Vaginal (giving)
Anal (receiving) (actually just kind of assume I'm on the sub end of stuff unless otherwise noted)
Orgasm denial
-includes edging and teasing, can include not coming at all for up to a few days or a week. I have a bracelet that prevents me from coming if I want to do it for awhile
-I also really like asking/begging to come and being told no/knowing I can ask and be told no
-I haven't done like a longer period of this in a really long time and I kind of really want to but I'd be restricted to partners who are into/down with that and idk if everyone is
breeding kink
Praise kink I guess
Anal and oral at the same time (usually one is like fingers or a toy)
Cuddling/affection

Yes definitely
Aphro (controlled use)
Choking
Body writing
Dirty talk (I am bad at doing it but hearing it is really good)
Discipline/rules (depending on the rules and punishments, I don't really want to feel like I'm fucking up or like I'm going to)
Gags (have only tried ball gags but open to any in-mouth options)
Chastity (may require some discussion but I'm eager to come to agreeable terms)
Objectification (less like "indifferent to you like furniture" and more like "prized possession")
Rough sex/pushing each other around a little
Overstimulation/exhaustion/making me sore (little bit mood dependent, sometimes it's too much)
Body or body part worship (giving)
Sex with clothes on
Being called female terms (specifically and only around genitals, calling a butthole a pussy or whatever)

Sure if you want/doesn't bother me/neither specifically into nor against
Oral (receiving)
Anal (giving)
sensory deprivation (blindfolds or earplugs etc)
Rimming
Public stuff (I don't want to do it like in the middle of a party but if we can get off into a corner I don't care if people can technically see us)

Really good but circumstantial/can also be bad
Consent stuff (like I pretend to be saying no but there's a safe word so we know no means yes)
Cockwarming
Really large penetrations/fisting
Same-hole DP
Threesomes/multiple partners at once (in sequence is fine)
Magic during sex
-basically tell me about any magic you want to use before we do it and maybe demonstrate when we're calm. I'm definitely not against this but I have to know what to expect
Pain stuff (really intense)
free use

Maybe
Creative positions (mostly these hurt my back)
Being a brat (mostly this is unpleasant and happens when I'm panicking)
Begging
-this kind of depends on what I'm begging for. Can be really frustrating but also just naturally happens sometimes

None for me
Degradation/humiliation/anything that makes me feel shitty
Electricity
Gross body stuff (like bathroom stuff or spitting)
Being called female terms (any context other than genitals, like calling me a good girl)

i don't have a specific safe word, i just use colors/traffic lights. i like being able to call people something other than their name when we're doing kink stuff so tell me if there's specific terms you like or don't like. i also like being called things. feel free to experiment as long as it's not super mean or degrading or we can talk about it