The funny thing here would be to ask if you do specific shit that I like but idk if I want the answers and I don't know if I believe that you want to know
1. Are you telling me you have a kink list and 2. You and I have known each other since we were kids. Of course I want to know. I can't be a good wingwoman if I don't?
Favorite Pain stuff (mild to moderate) -I've been SUPER super into pain stuff recently so like, come at me -spanking and hair pulling are always really good, just learned I like face slapping, specific details can be mood dependent but I definitely want you to hurt me Oral (giving) -includes throat fucking, being rough, slightly unusual positions, face sitting Vaginal (giving) Anal (receiving) (actually just kind of assume I'm on the sub end of stuff unless otherwise noted) Orgasm denial -includes edging and teasing, can include not coming at all for up to a few days or a week. I have a bracelet that prevents me from coming if I want to do it for awhile -I also really like asking/begging to come and being told no/knowing I can ask and be told no Praise kink I guess Anal and oral at the same time (usually one is like fingers or a toy) Cuddling/affection Daddy kink
Yes definitely Aphro (controlled use) Choking Body writing Dirty talk (I am bad at doing it but hearing it is really good) Discipline/rules (depending on the rules and punishments, I don't really want to feel like I'm fucking up or like I'm going to) Gags (have only tried ball gags but open to any in-mouth options) Collars/leashes (haven't actually done but in theory) Objectification (less like "indifferent to you like furniture" and more like "prized possession") Rough sex/pushing each other around a little Overstimulation/exhaustion/making me sore Body or body part worship (giving) Sex with clothes on Free use (like it doesn't matter whether I want it or not, it's my job to be available)
Sure if you want/doesn't bother me Ageplay Oral (receiving) Anal (giving) sensory deprivation (blindfolds or earplugs etc) Rimming
Really good but circumstantial/can also be bad Consent stuff (like I pretend to be saying no but there's a safe word so we know no means yes) Cockwarming Being called female terms Really large penetrations/fisting Same-hole DP Threesomes/multiple partners at once (in sequence is fine) Magic during sex -basically tell me about any magic you want to use before we do it and maybe demonstrate when we're calm. I'm definitely not against this but I have to know what to expect Pain stuff (really intense) -is it weird that i want to try front spanking
Maybe Creative positions (mostly these hurt my back) Being a brat (mostly this is unpleasant and happens when I'm panicking) Public stuff Chastity Begging -this kind of depends on what I'm begging for. Can be really frustrating but also just naturally happens sometimes
None for me Degradation/humiliation/anything that makes me feel shitty Electricity Gross body stuff (like bathroom stuff or spitting)
i don't have a specific safe word, i just use colors/traffic lights. i like being able to call people something other than their name when we're doing kink stuff so tell me if there's specific terms you like or don't like. i also like being called things. feel free to experiment as long as it's not super mean or degrading or we can talk about it
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2. You and I have known each other since we were kids. Of course I want to know. I can't be a good wingwoman if I don't?
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Favorite
Pain stuff (mild to moderate)
-I've been SUPER super into pain stuff recently so like, come at me
-spanking and hair pulling are always really good, just learned I like face slapping, specific details can be mood dependent but I definitely want you to hurt me
Oral (giving)
-includes throat fucking, being rough, slightly unusual positions, face sitting
Vaginal (giving)
Anal (receiving) (actually just kind of assume I'm on the sub end of stuff unless otherwise noted)
Orgasm denial
-includes edging and teasing, can include not coming at all for up to a few days or a week. I have a bracelet that prevents me from coming if I want to do it for awhile
-I also really like asking/begging to come and being told no/knowing I can ask and be told no
Praise kink I guess
Anal and oral at the same time (usually one is like fingers or a toy)
Cuddling/affection
Daddy kink
Yes definitely
Aphro (controlled use)
Choking
Body writing
Dirty talk (I am bad at doing it but hearing it is really good)
Discipline/rules (depending on the rules and punishments, I don't really want to feel like I'm fucking up or like I'm going to)
Gags (have only tried ball gags but open to any in-mouth options)
Collars/leashes (haven't actually done but in theory)
Objectification (less like "indifferent to you like furniture" and more like "prized possession")
Rough sex/pushing each other around a little
Overstimulation/exhaustion/making me sore
Body or body part worship (giving)
Sex with clothes on
Free use (like it doesn't matter whether I want it or not, it's my job to be available)
Sure if you want/doesn't bother me
Ageplay
Oral (receiving)
Anal (giving)
sensory deprivation (blindfolds or earplugs etc)
Rimming
Really good but circumstantial/can also be bad
Consent stuff (like I pretend to be saying no but there's a safe word so we know no means yes)
Cockwarming
Being called female terms
Really large penetrations/fisting
Same-hole DP
Threesomes/multiple partners at once (in sequence is fine)
Magic during sex
-basically tell me about any magic you want to use before we do it and maybe demonstrate when we're calm. I'm definitely not against this but I have to know what to expect
Pain stuff (really intense)
-is it weird that i want to try front spanking
Maybe
Creative positions (mostly these hurt my back)
Being a brat (mostly this is unpleasant and happens when I'm panicking)
Public stuff
Chastity
Begging
-this kind of depends on what I'm begging for. Can be really frustrating but also just naturally happens sometimes
None for me
Degradation/humiliation/anything that makes me feel shitty
Electricity
Gross body stuff (like bathroom stuff or spitting)
i don't have a specific safe word, i just use colors/traffic lights. i like being able to call people something other than their name when we're doing kink stuff so tell me if there's specific terms you like or don't like. i also like being called things. feel free to experiment as long as it's not super mean or degrading or we can talk about it